Let Life Happen Through You, Not To You – TPS496

In January 2020, I started talking about conscious synchronicity on this podcast. I think a lot about this topic and in today’s episode, I share some of the things I’ve learned about the depths of what it is and what it takes to allow conscious synchronicity into your life.

Highlights

• Synchronicity is when unrelated incidents seem to be more than just coincidence. I give examples.
• Over the years, I have asked the question, “What if everything that happens is synchronicity.”
• If you’re willing to believe that everything you need shows up and you need everything that shows up, when something uncomfortable happens, you can ask, “Why do I need this?” The answer always is related to the feelings that helped create the situation.
• Emotions are the creative force behind our life stories.
• The situation doesn’t cause the emotion. The emotion is the force behind the situation. I give examples.
• I talk about the process of asking yourself what you’re feeling, when you have felt it before, what you would rather be feeling, and you know how to feel that.
• You have to decide what their feeling goals are.
• There is nothing wrong with you that needs fixing. You just have habits that developed early in childhood and these habits can change.
• It takes time to develop new habits and new neural pathways in your brain.
• Whatever happens in your life is a reflection of what is going on inside of you.
• Anger can be a habitual response to familiar stimuli, and you have to decide if you want to change your responses.
• Empathetic detachment is when I can really empathize with what others feel, but I don’t have to take responsibility for it and fix it.
• The more you can let go of those deeply ingrained habits, the more will show up for you that’s comfortable.
• To build my coaching business, I didn’t want to have to do a lot of outbound marketing. I wanted to be able to get myself in the right place and have what I need show up.
• I talk about my current state of comfort and joy since I let go of old family-related feelings.
• For conscious synchronicity to work, it’s necessary to examine the whole process of letting go.
• Are you ready to let go of trying to control everything? Conscious synchronicity requires that you let life happen through you, not to you.
• Who you are right now is perfect.
• When you can ask yourself, “Why do I need this?” instead of, “Why is this happening to me?” your life results will be different.
• There is no one thing that is going to make your life more comfortable. A holistic approach is necessary.
• It’s a matter of looking at what is and deciding if there’s something that you would rather it be.

Links

Dissolve the Anger Money Connection

Podcast episode: The Heart of War, Heart of Peace

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